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How to Choose Your Vendors for a Destination Wedding

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Hello, Lovely Brides and Grooms!

If you're here, you're probably planning a destination wedding, how exciting! We are thrilled to join you on this beautiful journey. We know that a destination wedding can be incredibly romantic and unique, but we also understand that it can be somewhat stressful not being able to oversee all the logistics of your event from afar.

Planning a wedding is already a huge challenge, and when it's in a far-off location, the challenges might seem even bigger. You're in unfamiliar place, and we get that you might feel a bit overwhelmed by all the details you need to consider. How do you find the best vendors? How can you be sure everything will go as planned? These are just a few of the questions you might be asking yourself.

But don't worry, we're here to help make everything perfect on your special day.

So that is why we want to share some tips on how to choose your vendors for a destination wedding:


  • Research and ask for recommendations.

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In this digital age, we have tons of information at our fingertips. You can start by making an online search for vendors at your wedding destination. Read reviews, look at photos from previous events, and compare services and prices.

Ask friends, family, or even other vendors you're already working with for recommendations. If you know someone who has had a destination wedding, that person could be your best source of information. Vendors you're already in touch with might have contacts or suggestions in the place where you plan to hold your wedding.

Another option is to join social media groups for brides planning destination weddings. These communities share recommendations and warnings about specific vendors.

  • Seek expert guidance.

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Hiring a destination wedding specialist or your wedding planner before anyone else can greatly ease the task. These professionals already have a network of trusted vendors they have worked with in the past and can help you make decisions in a more informed way. Moreover, they can assist you in coordinating all the details, from transportation to decor, which can be especially useful if you don't speak the local language or aren't familiar with the area.

  • Check references.

While a vendor might have an appealing website and positive feedback across their social media, speaking directly with couples who have previously used their services will give you a more detailed and honest perspective on their professionalism and reliability.

It's essential to evaluate the vendor's quality of work, punctuality, and their ability to handle unexpected events. For instance, if you're considering a photographer, ask couples you know who have worked with this vendor about the photo quality, whether they captured significant moments, and if they were satisfied with the end result. For a catering provider, inquire about the food quality, its presentation, and if there was enough for all guests. Another aspect would be the vendor's timeliness, how they managed delays and unexpected situations, the quality of communication before and during the wedding, and overall satisfaction with the service provided.

By verifying references, you'll gain a clear understanding of the vendor's work quality, professionalism, and reliability, helping you make informed decisions and select vendors that will contribute to making your destination wedding a memorable and unforgettable event.

  • Clear contracts

Make sure that vendors present you clear and detailed contracts, specifying all the services that will be provided, the prices for each service, the dates and times the services will be offered, and any other vital details such as cancellation and refund policies.

Depending on the type of vendor, there might be other essential clauses that should be included in the contract, like an exclusivity clause for the photographer or requirements for extra hours' payment if the event runs longer than anticipated. We recommend reading all contracts thoroughly before signing, asking for clarifications on any terms you don't understand, and keeping a signed copy of all contracts for future reference. This will help prevent misunderstandings and issues down the road, ensuring your destination wedding is a complete success.

  • Keep in touch with vendors

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Communication with your vendors is crucial to make sure your destination wedding goes as planned. From the moment you first contact a vendor to your wedding day, it's important to maintain a clear and open communication.

This begins from the moment you share your expectations, agree on the details of the service they'll provide, the costs involved, and other significant aspects like the time and place they need to be present. As your wedding day approaches, it's essential to stay in touch to confirm details such as the schedule, location, any equipment or materials the vendor should bring, and other logistical matters.

Plus, we recommend setting up a communication channel with each vendor, whether it be email, phone, or WhatsApp. Lastly, don't hesitate to provide feedback to your vendors if you feel something isn't going as you wish; it's better to address any issues immediately rather than waiting until the wedding day.

  • Visit the destination

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Planning a destination wedding comes with its unique challenges, such as coordinating details from afar. While technology has made this process more manageable, there's no substitute for face-to-face meetings. Therefore, if possible, we recommend scheduling a visit to the destination before the wedding. This will allow you to meet with vendors in person, giving you a clearer view of how they operate and letting you witness the quality of their work firsthand. Use this opportunity to discuss any outstanding details, ask questions, and gain a sense of trust in those you're working with.

However, if visiting the destination before the wedding isn't possible, we advise organizing virtual meetings with the vendors. This creates direct communication, discussion of details, addressing questions, and building a trust relationship.

  • Mind your budget

Organizing a destination wedding is a dream come true for many couples, but it can also be a financial challenge. For this reason, you should keep your budget in mind throughout the planning process to avoid any last-minute surprises. First, define an overall budget for the wedding, including all elements such as the venue, food, accommodations, flights, decoration, music, etc. Then, request detailed quotes from various vendors and compare them carefully. Note that most vendors ask for an upfront deposit to book their services. It's crucial to consider this, especially to manage your payments effectively. We also advise setting aside a contingency fund for unexpected expenses. It's essential to monitor your budget consistently throughout the process to make sure everything remains in check.

Taking care of the budget is vital to guarantee your destination wedding is a success and doesn't lead to financial stress.

  • Consider language and culture

Planning a wedding in a foreign country or even a different region in your own country presents its unique challenges concerning language and culture. If you're planning a wedding in a country where the primary language is different from yours, ensure you can communicate effectively with your vendors. It's not just about being able to deliver your wishes clearly but also fully understanding what the vendors are telling you. Therefore, make sure the vendors you choose speak a language in which you feel comfortable communicating. If not, consider hiring a translator to assist with the communication.

Beyond language barriers, you should also be aware of cultural differences. Every country and region has its traditions and customs, and it's crucial to be respectful and mindful of them. Some places have specific traditions related to the wedding ceremony, attire, music, etc. Make sure to familiarize yourself with these local traditions and customs and think about how they might be incorporated into your wedding or if you need to adjust certain aspects of your celebration.


We are sure that with these tips, proper planning, and choosing trustworthy vendors, your special day will be everything you've always dreamed of. Don't forget to consider elements such as communication, budget, language, culture, and contracts when selecting vendors for your destination wedding.

We want you to have the support of professionals throughout your process, as it can make all the difference in creating the wedding of your dreams. At Frida Enamorada, we've carefully selected the best vendors to help you assemble your ideal team. We invite you to get to know our recommended vendors and discover how they can assist you in crafting the destination wedding of your dreams. Click HERE to explore our recommendations and step aboard on the journey towards the big day.

Until next time! xoxo.

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